Byronic Unhappiness

Byronic Unhappiness

“Where our thoughts and Opinions live, there we Dwell”
By understanding one’s life style, we can find the solution very easily but we never intend to do so in this manic world.
When a tired husband returns from the office, as soon as he relaxes after washing face, his wife with hot beverage sits before him. He tries to offload his daily transactions in the office trying to relax mentally, but wife invariantly puts a comma to that by saying she got some work in Kitchen. So thoughts of sharing views with Wife were evaporated for Mr.Husband and he will get mood off and stick to Idiot box.

After all daily chores the wife enters the private room Bedroom. Intimately he took her and started to feel her. But she starts all the issues with milkman, serials and maid, gossips she heard in that day and child education. Though it’s untimely discussion , she never puts an end to it. By the time she turns towards him, and found that he already slept. This was not story but the truth in many lives daily.

Each minute, mostly woman feel insecure about their role and place. Hence they try to express with various actions. They do not find interest in anything, cannot express views clearly, dual hearted and never consider others feelings with sense and sensibility and even cannot appreciate with love and compassion.

If you peep in to this family, you find no problem apparently at macro level. But lost happiness in family life will increase boredom, short temper. This will lead the Gentlemean to search for some opposite sex (female) at work level or outside.

Even if this gentleman got the same type of woman for whom he searched through, he never feel happiness again, the reason being is simple and clear, the sense of guilty. And this so called society never appreciates his feelings and considers his attachment as extramarital affair.
Hence we cannot live in a space in which we cannot express our views and ideaology. Though we live but just like deadened

Conquest of Happiness

Conquest of Happiness

One has to understand the difference between the Comfort and Happiness.

The tragedy of Present day Human Life is, in the mindst of increasing comforts man is finding decreasing Happiness.

Reasons for developing Discomforts:
» Byronic unhappiness
» Competition
» Boredom and Excitement
» Fatigue
» Envy
» The Sense of Sin
» Persecution Mania
» Fear of Public Opinion

The explanation follows daily...

Is Happiness virtual or reality?

It’s been quite uneasy for me these days while I listen to people saying that they were not happy with their life.

I do not have that much time to listen to everyone’s issue and guide them to track back. If ever I get that time I’m happy doing so.

Why I do this, not for money, not for fame but as a responsibility being born as Human.

I found it’s very easy to say we’re unhappy but any time have we tried to find why we’re unhappy. I hope most of the people never did this because we’re afraid of ourselves, our thoughts, ideas, feelings,relations and even actions.

We might express our thoughts so expressly exactly oppositely what we feel inside our heart.

We never found the Happiness because it’s with us but not visible. We try to buy the expensive gift for our beloved to show how much we love them. But have we really love them? I doubt. We do all this gifts and others to show public not to our heart.

The tragedy of Present day Human Life is, in the mindst of increasing comforts man is finding decreasing Happiness.

I have seen people who told me they were in search of peace and happiness, out of spiritual inclination I advised them some remedies but they were failed as these people were interested in only expressing the cause ,trials of finding it and enjoying.


These issues made me to write a detailed article on Finding Happiness and living with it. For this I took permission from my Guru and the story line was from him Only.

I’ll focus more on topics like this depending your feedback and comments


Thanking you


Jai Gurudev